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To Jake ~ my son ~ 5 - 9 - 2009
To Jake ... 5-9-2009
It's time for me to write to you with the same words that I should be able to speak directly to you . You have made me a proud mother . Do you realize what has happened ? Do you ever think that you are entitled to have questions , any question answered with honesty . Do you know you have rights ? Are you aware of the deception to this circumstance ? Do you understand what alienation means ? Do you know that it is against the law ?
Do you know that your mother is terminally ill with Multiple Sclerosis and numerous other medical conditions ? Do you know that your immediate relatives know this ? Do you believe that you have been kept from me or do you think I just walked away ? Why would I walk out on my two babes ? Do you deserve to know the truth ? Do you deserve to see me on my death bed or not one day ever since restraining orders just keep us apart - ever ask for the reasons ? Who has harmed who in this situation ? What do you think when it comes to brain washing ? Do you know that your immediate relatives understand this ?
Why would you hate your own mother - what have I done so bad or aweful ? Do you really have all the facts or just assigned ones ? Did I see my belongings on the curb on several occassions when I came for visitations ? Is that a nice gesture for obtaining property , who placed my stuff to the curb like trash bags for garbage day ?
Do you know I have an electric wheel chair ? Do you know I give myself a shot medication every other day ? Do you plan to send me a video of you and do you agree with that plan ? Do you think or remember me never spending any money on clothes or other things for you ? did I buy shoes , hats, jerseys , jeans ? Am I not your mother and some stranger is ?
Do you protect your sister or do you hurt or hinder her ? Do you know that she is not sick with anything ? Can you understand drug poisoning ? Is this possible to happen ? Do you believe that honesty is a virtue and value and a moral obligation ? What would an oath mean if someone wanted to hear your voice as a child of divorce ? Do you understand why I advocate for you and your sister and all the other children ? Would you ever have a strong belief in your future that you expect to be loyal to ?
What happened last in 2004 . Did I plan to take you away ? how about being apart of your life ? Why am I estranged from you ? What person can you trust and do you want me to tell you who to trust ? Do you kow that this is hostile behavior and my rights and your rights have been violated ? Did you meet a few judges ? Did you like the cursing language that your grand father said to me when you were both coming on my visitation day some years back ? is that a good example for respecting others ? What a mean person who hurt him - me , you any one else ? What holidays did you have with your mother ? What vacations have you had with your mother ? What birthdays have you had with your mother ? I ain't no good umm ? Do you really think people agree with that last comment ?
Does your church speak about family values / Does the bible speak about values and commandments ? Who choice to hate me and why ? Should you be loved from a distance or is this odd to you ? Should you be asked to come to a memorial for your mother ? Why would she not see you graduate from 8 th grade and now high school ? Is she as dangerous as a criminal ? Do you believe someone goes to jail for sending cards in the mail to their children ? Did you think I should have been handcuffed in front of your home ? It's been all too long to hear so many lies my son .
Did I not loose everything , do you know about 50/50 ? Would you like to be married one day ? Would you loose valuable time knowing your mother if you had made the decision ? Does your sister need me ? Do you agree with discrimination and false accusations and deceptions for personal gain ? Do you care about me ? Would you not want your own mothers love which is always unconditional ?
What angers you most ? What makes you happy ? Who do you wish to talk with ? How can you see me and why have you waited ? Can you be 18 and do what you wish to ? What have been the rules and punishments for you and your sister ? Should she be apart from her own mother ? Does she love me ? Does she miss me ? Do you know what torture I have been put through ? Do you know I could pass away and maybe you will not even be told ?
Did it take all this unfair garbage to split our family apart ? Who is thoughtful and decent ? Who has been rich and who is poor ? Who do you think is hiding secrets ? Can you make a call ? What would the church say if they knew all of this ? Do you know that Pastor Scott did and he was not happy about the underhanded stuff . Do you understand that it's time to be set free of parental alienation since you do know the truth and no one can rule over your mind and heart any more . It's time to come to your mother and we can patch up what should have never been shredded apart . This is a right that the two of you have . Speak up or forever hold the secrets that will forever keep you hostage . I am your mouth piece since there was nothing but honesty and love that I have as being your mother . Why do you have half a family ? Why would I need to join a family reform movement ? Do you know the aweful truths to divorce and court corruption and fraud and secrecy ? How can you learn all the truth when there is a division and years seperated ? What did you do so bad to be apart from me ? Who do you trust that I know knows you ? What friends of mine do you remember ? What's my maiden name ? When is my birthday ? How old am I ? What a damn shame to see this bullshit go on ... trust me it's everywhere in this country . Figure out how much any one cares about the family , you , adults , any senior or disabled person . Unfortunately not everyting is exactly what it appears . Do you know what the future of this country is and what subject do you enjoy talking about ? hey ... I love you and miss you and my time and energy is slipping more and more . I will not beg to see you , your father has been told nearly 2 yrs. ago that I am sick . Ask me what I am ill with okay !
Secondary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis
Degenerative Cerebellar Disease
Degenerative Spine and Disc Disease
Osteoperosis
Get information from the source and you won't have to hear the bullshit all your life .
yes I am mom and I am proud to be your mother .
The rest of the saga has been written by someone else , definately not me I would never do this to either of you . What would you think of me if I kept you from your father ?
Time keeps ticking away and maybe afar if you wait too long . Love forever and always ~MoM~
It's time for me to write to you with the same words that I should be able to speak directly to you . You have made me a proud mother . Do you realize what has happened ? Do you ever think that you are entitled to have questions , any question answered with honesty . Do you know you have rights ? Are you aware of the deception to this circumstance ? Do you understand what alienation means ? Do you know that it is against the law ?
Do you know that your mother is terminally ill with Multiple Sclerosis and numerous other medical conditions ? Do you know that your immediate relatives know this ? Do you believe that you have been kept from me or do you think I just walked away ? Why would I walk out on my two babes ? Do you deserve to know the truth ? Do you deserve to see me on my death bed or not one day ever since restraining orders just keep us apart - ever ask for the reasons ? Who has harmed who in this situation ? What do you think when it comes to brain washing ? Do you know that your immediate relatives understand this ?
Why would you hate your own mother - what have I done so bad or aweful ? Do you really have all the facts or just assigned ones ? Did I see my belongings on the curb on several occassions when I came for visitations ? Is that a nice gesture for obtaining property , who placed my stuff to the curb like trash bags for garbage day ?
Do you know I have an electric wheel chair ? Do you know I give myself a shot medication every other day ? Do you plan to send me a video of you and do you agree with that plan ? Do you think or remember me never spending any money on clothes or other things for you ? did I buy shoes , hats, jerseys , jeans ? Am I not your mother and some stranger is ?
Do you protect your sister or do you hurt or hinder her ? Do you know that she is not sick with anything ? Can you understand drug poisoning ? Is this possible to happen ? Do you believe that honesty is a virtue and value and a moral obligation ? What would an oath mean if someone wanted to hear your voice as a child of divorce ? Do you understand why I advocate for you and your sister and all the other children ? Would you ever have a strong belief in your future that you expect to be loyal to ?
What happened last in 2004 . Did I plan to take you away ? how about being apart of your life ? Why am I estranged from you ? What person can you trust and do you want me to tell you who to trust ? Do you kow that this is hostile behavior and my rights and your rights have been violated ? Did you meet a few judges ? Did you like the cursing language that your grand father said to me when you were both coming on my visitation day some years back ? is that a good example for respecting others ? What a mean person who hurt him - me , you any one else ? What holidays did you have with your mother ? What vacations have you had with your mother ? What birthdays have you had with your mother ? I ain't no good umm ? Do you really think people agree with that last comment ?
Does your church speak about family values / Does the bible speak about values and commandments ? Who choice to hate me and why ? Should you be loved from a distance or is this odd to you ? Should you be asked to come to a memorial for your mother ? Why would she not see you graduate from 8 th grade and now high school ? Is she as dangerous as a criminal ? Do you believe someone goes to jail for sending cards in the mail to their children ? Did you think I should have been handcuffed in front of your home ? It's been all too long to hear so many lies my son .
Did I not loose everything , do you know about 50/50 ? Would you like to be married one day ? Would you loose valuable time knowing your mother if you had made the decision ? Does your sister need me ? Do you agree with discrimination and false accusations and deceptions for personal gain ? Do you care about me ? Would you not want your own mothers love which is always unconditional ?
What angers you most ? What makes you happy ? Who do you wish to talk with ? How can you see me and why have you waited ? Can you be 18 and do what you wish to ? What have been the rules and punishments for you and your sister ? Should she be apart from her own mother ? Does she love me ? Does she miss me ? Do you know what torture I have been put through ? Do you know I could pass away and maybe you will not even be told ?
Did it take all this unfair garbage to split our family apart ? Who is thoughtful and decent ? Who has been rich and who is poor ? Who do you think is hiding secrets ? Can you make a call ? What would the church say if they knew all of this ? Do you know that Pastor Scott did and he was not happy about the underhanded stuff . Do you understand that it's time to be set free of parental alienation since you do know the truth and no one can rule over your mind and heart any more . It's time to come to your mother and we can patch up what should have never been shredded apart . This is a right that the two of you have . Speak up or forever hold the secrets that will forever keep you hostage . I am your mouth piece since there was nothing but honesty and love that I have as being your mother . Why do you have half a family ? Why would I need to join a family reform movement ? Do you know the aweful truths to divorce and court corruption and fraud and secrecy ? How can you learn all the truth when there is a division and years seperated ? What did you do so bad to be apart from me ? Who do you trust that I know knows you ? What friends of mine do you remember ? What's my maiden name ? When is my birthday ? How old am I ? What a damn shame to see this bullshit go on ... trust me it's everywhere in this country . Figure out how much any one cares about the family , you , adults , any senior or disabled person . Unfortunately not everyting is exactly what it appears . Do you know what the future of this country is and what subject do you enjoy talking about ? hey ... I love you and miss you and my time and energy is slipping more and more . I will not beg to see you , your father has been told nearly 2 yrs. ago that I am sick . Ask me what I am ill with okay !
Secondary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis
Degenerative Cerebellar Disease
Degenerative Spine and Disc Disease
Osteoperosis
Get information from the source and you won't have to hear the bullshit all your life .
yes I am mom and I am proud to be your mother .
The rest of the saga has been written by someone else , definately not me I would never do this to either of you . What would you think of me if I kept you from your father ?
Time keeps ticking away and maybe afar if you wait too long . Love forever and always ~MoM~
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