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Charla, I have a 21 yr old daughter I put through college, she lived in a loevely home and was "spoiled" in every way a father could spoil a daughter. within 48 hours of separation, I went from "heavenly dad" to "Darth Vadar!" You need to get in...
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Thanks again Dennis. I joined the yahoo group. I think I may take you up on your offer...there seems a great huge need to try and gather PA/PAS parents in a few key locations (online), but with all the websites, they are all spread out all over th...
May 8
Thank you Dennis....no, I have not checked out Yahoo Groups. I will do that, but there are so very many online blogs, chats, etc., that I feel like I am getting nowhere. I think PAAO has the best chance of being able to reach out, but surprized th...
May 8
I am looking for upcoming conferences and seminars within the U.S. and Canada that are meeting for the purpose of Parental Alienation. I am having trouble finding websites/schedules/etc. The PAAO website seems to have nothing for 2009 listed (othe...
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April 23
Hi Charla... Narcissism is another character trait of most alienating parents. Along with insecurity, control issues, manipulation, etc.... It's my belief that all alienating parents have more and deeper psychological issues...depression, bi-polar...
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April 18
Sorry to hear about your situation. Narcissism can be a very serious issue to deal with. If you get the chance I'd like to talk to you. Click on my pic and stop by my page, maybe together as a group we can come up with an antidote for your problems.
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I am forever mom to my 14 year old daughter, Claire. She was signed away by a careless judge to her father in April, 2008, after 14 years of alienation by her father towards me. Her father is now in contempt of the custody agreement as it was sign...
April 17
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PAS starts at birth

I am forever mom to my 14 year old daughter, Claire. She was signed away by a careless judge to her father in April, 2008, after 14 years of alienation by her father towards me. Her father is now in contempt of the custody agreement as it was signed. I cannot afford to open this back up in court to get this taken care of at present time. I have not seen or spoken to my daughter in over a year now, in contrast to her entire previous life, which I was her primary parent, homework helper, meal prov… Continue

Posted on April 17, 2009 at 4:02pm — 3 Comments

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At 2:16am on May 9, 2009, FAIR RULINGS said…
Be strong… The children wont stop dancing. Believe in yourself and know you’re a special mother.

Happy Mothers Day!


At 4:43am on April 30, 2009, FAIR RULINGS said…
The Narcissistic Type (N)

          He would convey the impression that "I will be the greatest, the most glorious and the most beautiful, and in fact I think that I already am!"  He is self-admiring.  He has great ambitions with regard to future accomplishments, but does not recognize his limitations.

His eyes are set more toward himself and toward the limelight of recognition to be attained in the future than toward the actual tasks with which he must deal.  His voice is soothing and clear, and may be directed toward the horizon where all can hear it.
 
His pride is also invested in the beauty of his physical body when in the presence of others.  With his not so subtle body postures, mannerisms, and self-congratulatory laughter, he flaunts himself.

Lacking perfectionist qualities, he may have difficulties in organizing himself.  He lacks persistence or staying power.  Perfectionism by careful repetitive action is alien to him.

He has no aggressive-vindictive qualities, does not "play the game" of dominance and submission and does not become involved in the dependency of subjugation.  He does not split his personality to a subdued state.He cannot be incited into an aggressive-vindictive rage.

He cannot tolerate any serious criticism of his qualities, or interference in his ambition to attain the limelight.  When frustrated he may, on the one hand, be incited into the narcissistic rage of defense and withdrawal, or on the other hand, he may undergo a depression to an abject state of hopelessness.

Girl you need to get away.

At 6:05am on April 24, 2009, Theresa Martin said…

At 3:36am on April 18, 2009, FAIR RULINGS said…
At 4:47pm on April 15, 2009, Shari said…
Hi Charla...welcome to CNBP! I see you met the Fair Rulings welcome wagon...he's a blast and from the looks of the video, a former social misfit too (werent we all at one time or another???)
Im nearby in Huntington Beach, which at one time looked like zooprt on good days, now all outlawed by the world famous HBPD.
Anyway, stop by and say hi.
Take care,
shari
At 11:32pm on April 14, 2009, FAIR RULINGS said…
I used to rage in Newport, back in the day, when I was just a young social misfit. lol

At 11:08pm on April 14, 2009, FAIR RULINGS said…
We have to do some talking... I'll send you a private message.
At 2:26am on April 9, 2009, stuart showalter said…
Welcome to CNBP forum. Please take a moment to familiarize yourself with all the features. There is a discussion board that you may search by topic, a blog where you may post information you would like others to see and a members directory. THANK YOU for taking the time to add your city and state to your profile. Although the issues we face are universal many of the changes will take place locally and that is when we need to be able to contact each other instead of the entire group. If you need any assistance please feel free to contact me. Again, welcome and I hope you find CNBP to be a valuable resource.
At 6:17pm on April 8, 2009, FAIR RULINGS said…


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At 5:50pm on April 8, 2009, Lary Holland said…
Welcome to the CNBP forum. Please don't hesitate to let us know if there is anything we can help with.

Lary Holland
Host and Producer of Get Your Justice Live
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