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These 3 shots are from 5/2/08 when James came to visit for 4 whole hours and we fit as much into those 4 hours as we could. Here we are checking out Olson Park here in Ann Arbor to make sure we get the whole 4 hours before I had to take him back to his mother.

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At 8:12am on June 8, 2009, Merle Friedman said…: Hi, I see sadness in your sons eyes. What can I say, Im sure he wanted to spend the whole day with your or even the weekend. Divorce is a terrible thing, we suffer, but our children are truly the victims. They suffer forever. I hope and pray that things work out for you and your beautiful son. Take care Merley
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At 12:31am on November 21, 2008, FAIR RULINGS said…: Thanks for the add Carter

At 9:20am on November 20, 2008, BKStrelioff said…: You must have been tempted to video the entire 4 hours -- just to make sure you captured it all! The cycle of emotions these kids go through during such a short visit must be amazing.

At 1:02pm on August 7, 2008, Bryan Lee McGlothin said…: Hi Carter,
I'm Bryan Lee McGlothin and have just recently joined the forum. I was kidnapped by my father at 2-years-old. I didn't find my mother until I was 33. I will be speaking at the DC Festival 2008 and signing my book Have You Seen My Mother.
Would you like to be firends?
Thanks and hope to see you in DC!
Bryan

At 3:25pm on June 7, 2008, Billy Wiseman said…

At 3:48pm on May 12, 2008, Carter84262 said…: It keeps getting worse. The judge has now ordered me into receivership. The receiver is to sell my house. Between that and my savings pay my ex the settlement and put money into a trust to pay child support through my son turning 18. I am in the process of preparing my house for sale (there were several things not done right during a remodeling 7 yrs ago) and looking into a 2nd mortgage the judge ordered me 3 weeks ago to get to pay my ex. The current order will reduce the price I will be able to get for my house greatly. I have been actually getting some photography business recently...I shot portraits Thur & Fri last week...this new attack will again limit my ability to work. I have been trying to do what the judge asked, as wrong as it is...but she beats me down further anyway. I just don't know what to do any more. No matter how hard I try they keep coming after me. I just now got my son's 3rd quarter grades, a month late. He flunked math and got a D+ in science...his former 2nd and 1st best classes...he got an A in lang. arts...his mother's favorite class. Did I mention his hair is now the same color as his mother's? A mousy brown she dyes her hair...his used to be much darker, similar to mine.

At 6:13pm on May 7, 2008, Carter84262 said…: I went to get my son today from his mother...he wouldn't come out. He said he had a good time last Friday with me and that I didn't do anything to make him not want to see me. He has gone back to saying he just doesn't know why but he wasn't coming to see. me. He started out the conversation saying he had something to tell me he didn't know how to say. His mother jumped in and for him said he had nightmares because I told him details about the divorce and my financial situation...to which he answered I haven't said anything like that in a long time. So his mother puts words in his mouth and he doesn't see it happening. She is obviously doing whatever she can to alienate my son from me. She calls me to harass me too. I won't even talk with her now when she calls. I had to this time though because I was trying to communicate with my son.

At 12:51pm on May 5, 2008, Carter84262 said…: That obviously should have been note

At 12:50pm on May 5, 2008, Carter84262 said…: Not the difference in my son's hair color from the 1st pic to the recent pix...it is now mousy brown like his mother's...unusual for a child's hair to lighten like that...darken is more normal...the change could be natural...or his mother could have dyed it.